A sense of entitlement! I love my son, but he is 18 years old and behaves like a spoiled ASSHOLE! He has an attitude and it is a rotten one that totally stinks to high hell!! He is extremely spoiled and immature and he often acts like I owe him something! What he doesn't realize is that he is 18 years old and the government says that I have done my job because he is 18 so now, I am legally done with his ass and he can end up on the streets without a roof over his head anytime I decide I have had enough of his stupid attitude. Anything else that I choose to do from here on out for that kid is a GIFT to him, because I don't own him a damn thing anymore according to the government!
I realistically think I will have to eventually throw him out of the house if this is how he chooses to continue to behave. I truly think that in order to appreciate his life, I think he needs to go and live with his father and see what it is like for him to have to pay for his own stuff and to live with someone who has just as bad of an attitude and is just as self-centered as he is and he needs to experience how it feels to be on the receiving end and to be mistreated by someone who doesn't care about him and what he wants. He needs to get a job and behave like an adult! I am sick of him and his disrespect towards everyone in this house.
He is given a car, his insurance is paid for, and so is his gas, but he is not appreciative for any of it. Not once did he even thank me for any of this. Not once!! And the thing is, I am still waiting. I doubt it will ever happen if I don't mention it, because the truth is, he doesn't think this is a privilege, he feels that I owe him this.
He always says, "I should have been driving already since I was 15 1/2 years old." And I say, " You are correct in stating that. You should have been driving, but you are disrespectful, you lie often and can't be trusted, you rage out in anger and break things in the house and never want to be responsible for breaking thing because all you do blame others for your lack of self-control, you don't follow the rules set before you, you think I say things that I never say and then you accuse me of lying about the things you claim I've said, but never have and my parents have witnessed it and you still think I am lying and making it all up and you think I convince my parents to lie for me, you swear at us and in our presence, you don't do what is asked of you, although you say you will, you alway "FORGET" to call in and let me know where you are at, and the list goes on and on and on."
Driving to me is a privilege and not a RIGHT! I can't stand him and his attitude and the sooner he gets out on his own and realizes how difficult the REAL world is, maybe then, I will respect him, but until then, he is just an immature spoiled brat of a child whom I can't wait to kick out of the house so he can later come back (maybe) and be thankful for everything that is given to him.
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