I am escaping reality by not coming home even though I am finished working. I don't tell anyone that I am done early, I just don't come straight home. I drive around and do stuff like that just to run away. I don't come home because I don't want to be around my son or my parents. I feel like I have to escape from them.
There is no support from my mother who agrees to the dicipline that we both agree upon for my son and then she renegs on the agreement and allows him to do whatever he wants to do. I am so disappointed in them because this behavior is not from the same parents who raised me!
I am scared for my son who is a demanding rude disrespectful brat who feels like he is unloved and mistreated. He does no chores, he doesn't help out with anything, he is given food, nice clothing, shelter and extra curricular activities. He has no job and no responsibilities. My parents don't like me "nagging" him to empty the trash and tell me to do it myself if he decides he does not want to. This is coming from the same parents who made me mop, dust, do laundry, cook, wash and dry dishes, vaccuum, take care of my older brother and help him with his school work, water the front and back yard, go to school full time and work part time.
They (my parents)feel I should pay all his bills for driving. I think he should pay for half of his insurance, the upkeep for the car, and for his gas. I am willing to pay for the first 6 months and then after that, he should have to help. Then when he graduates from high school, he is on his own for his vehicle. He is going to be given a vehicle, so he doesn't have to worry about buying a car.
When he goes to college, he will have to pay for it up front after his first semester. I will pay for his first semester at college, then the following semester, he will pay for college himself, and whatever classes he passes I will pay for those classes only along with the books. But if he fails, he is on his own. I am sick and tired of being taken advantage of. I am tired of being everyone's doormat. I am learning to stand up for myself as I go through counseling. It has helped a great deal. I am glad that I am going.
There is no support from my mother who agrees to the dicipline that we both agree upon for my son and then she renegs on the agreement and allows him to do whatever he wants to do. I am so disappointed in them because this behavior is not from the same parents who raised me!
I am scared for my son who is a demanding rude disrespectful brat who feels like he is unloved and mistreated. He does no chores, he doesn't help out with anything, he is given food, nice clothing, shelter and extra curricular activities. He has no job and no responsibilities. My parents don't like me "nagging" him to empty the trash and tell me to do it myself if he decides he does not want to. This is coming from the same parents who made me mop, dust, do laundry, cook, wash and dry dishes, vaccuum, take care of my older brother and help him with his school work, water the front and back yard, go to school full time and work part time.
They (my parents)feel I should pay all his bills for driving. I think he should pay for half of his insurance, the upkeep for the car, and for his gas. I am willing to pay for the first 6 months and then after that, he should have to help. Then when he graduates from high school, he is on his own for his vehicle. He is going to be given a vehicle, so he doesn't have to worry about buying a car.
When he goes to college, he will have to pay for it up front after his first semester. I will pay for his first semester at college, then the following semester, he will pay for college himself, and whatever classes he passes I will pay for those classes only along with the books. But if he fails, he is on his own. I am sick and tired of being taken advantage of. I am tired of being everyone's doormat. I am learning to stand up for myself as I go through counseling. It has helped a great deal. I am glad that I am going.
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